Think up a couple of cool screen names, and remember to take a look at what other people are using to identify themselves.

Install an Instant Messenger Program - ideally both AOL/Netscape and Yahoo.

Decide which online dating site you're going to use.

Start writing a profile. It's better to go into a dating site having decided what you want to say about yourself.

Get a microphone for your computer. Most good Instant Messenger programs allow you to chat via your computer, rather than your phone.