Here are some points to consider when signing up at a dating
personals site, so that you don't get burned by someone with
less-than-reputable intentions.
Privacy Policy Posted?
Does the site you are browsing at have a privacy policy? Usually
you'll find a link towards the bottom of the page. Does the
company protect your information? Do they sell your email
address to "like-minded companies"? Also take a
peek at their terms of use page, if they have one. Are users
screened in any way?
Some dating personals sites now check singles' names against
legal documents to see if they are married, incarcerated or
have a criminal record. True is the most notable and largest
of this safety-concious group. They've gone so far as suing
convicted sex offenders for attemping to sign up at their dating
personals site.
Copyright is Current?
A simple way to check the age and veracity of any website is
to look for the copyright date. If it's older than the current
year, you may want to look elsewhere.
Layout Looks Lovely?
Browse around the dating personals site as much as you can
without actually signing up. Is the site clean, easy to navigate
and clear of any annoying pop-ups, advertisements or missing
graphics? A poorly developed site usually means poorly managed
information - something that you can't afford to risk. Surf
elsewhere if this is the case.
There are some exceptions to this rule, mostly free dating
personals sites looking to create an income from ads,
like OkCupid and PlentyOfFish. You'll have to use your judgement
in these kinds of situations, or look at the other safety tips
to assist in the decision making process.
Search for Some Sample Singles
Review the people that fit your dating criteria; are the personal
profiles well-written, or do they seem nonsensical? Are all
of the users model-like, or are there real looking people
in the smorgasbord?
Chances are, if it's a newer site with few members, they've
padded the user base with fake people just to get the ball
rolling. Alternatively, if you find a lot of profiles in the
dating personals site that just smack of ridiculousness, it
shows that the management team doesn't review their users at
all. Find another, more reputable site if this happens to you.
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