Most importantly, a person should make an effort to have
their online dating profile consist of only those key interests
and activities about them. Nobody wants to read an excessive
list of all the things that someone likes to do. Such a self-centered
profile might cause a person to think that the person is
arrogant. Just keep things simple and well thought out. Less
is more in this case. There is no need to overwhelm anyone
with too many details.
Keep things simple and leave some room for a little mystery,
as that can be very attractive at times. Boasting is not
necessary. Find a happy medium that tells people about you
in a simple and confident manner. Don’t make yourself
out to be a reject or an unhappy person, as that will not
bring the results you are hoping for. Be creative in your
wording and not boring.
Next, when indicating the type of person you are looking
for, don’t list an abundance of expectations that will
cause a person to think that you are looking for a superhero.
Be realistic in what you want in a person and chances are
you may get the response you want from a person you are interested
in. You need to be careful not to scare a person away with
your greater than thou expectations. There are no perfect
people in this world, so be sure to be realistic in your
requests.
For goodness sake, be honest in what you say about yourself.
I assure you that lies will not bring happy results. You
may be able to deceive people for a while but once the truth
comes out, there will be a lot of hurt, anger and disappointment,
which could be avoided. Just be honest and be yourself and
good things will come your way. There is no need to pretend
that you are someone that you are not. Chances are that the
person you want to be is not as great as you think anyway.
The most common lies are around age, profession, marriage
status and income. Don’t be shallow and lie, be honest!
Nobody is attracted to liars. Actually, there is really no
need to share your income in your profile.
When choosing text style, don’t type in capitals,
as it is too bold and harsh. Keep it a friendly style of
text and it will attract friendly people. Be careful not
to word things in such a way as to convey sexual messages
between the lines. Being sexually suggestive might just cause
you to be wrongly labeled and misunderstood by the right
person.
Finally, use words in your profile that people use in everyday
language, not ones that they have to look up in the dictionary
or Internet. Chances are they will not even bother with someone
who speaks above them in jargon and odd words. In conclusion,
convey an overall optimistic feeling in your profile. A person
who reads your profile should know that you are a confident,
independent and honest person who has genuine intentions
to meet their match!
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