1. You’re Just Like Everyone
Else
You know you’re not just like everyone else, so make
your profile stand out from the crowd. Be funny and exciting,
and stir up people’s imaginations and desires. Sexy profiles
attract sexy people.
2. You’re using a Bad Photo
Your photo is going to make or break the success of your adult
dating profile… spend some time making sure you’ve
got a great one. Grainy and unflattering photos should be tossed
aside to make room for colorful shots that make you look fabulously
irresistible.
3. You Use Too Much Online Jargon
The goal of your profile is to attract as many compatible
matches as possible, so it needs to be clear and concise. Nix
the trendy online acronyms (i.e. SWF); instead, write your
profile using straight forward and user-friendly language.
4. You’re not sure what you’re looking
for
One of the fundamental ways your profile will be categorized
is by the relationship type you are seeking (i.e. women seeking
couples). This is how people will sort through all the available
categories to possibly find you. Expand your horizons. Maybe
you’re actually open to more than you’ve considered.
5. You Haven’t Added Any Extra Photos
Pictures let people know how exciting, uninhibited, and sexy
you can be. Few people will be able to resist you when you
include some stimulating and mysterious photos in your public
and private albums.
6. You’re Not Honest in Your Description
If fellow online daters are seeing some major inconsistencies
between your personal details and your photos (i.e. you say
you’re 110 pounds but your photo makes you look much
larger), they’re going to be hesitant about contacting
you. Try not to exaggerate or mislead… it will only
come back to bite you in the end.
7. You’re Not Detailed in Your Description Of
Who You Are Seeking
Vague descriptions of what you are looking for won’t
garner a lot of results. This is because people reading your
profile won’t be able to immediately identify themselves
as your perfect match. Describe your fantasy with as much detail
as possible because you deserve to get exactly what you desire.
8. You Don’t Blog
Blogging does a couple of things: 1) It demonstrates you are
active on the site; 2) it lets people learn more about your
personality; 3) It allows you to create even more mystery and
intrigue about yourself. Just a few quick lines a week will
exponentially increase the number of connections you make.
9. You Don’t Chat
Just like blogging, adult chat rooms also increase the amount
of exposure you get on your adult dating site. You don’t
need to spend hours every day in chat rooms. However, you’ll
find that even just an hour or two a week will increase the
number of people you meet, thus increasing the number of hits
you get on your profile.
10. Haven’t Used ID Verification
IDs that haven’t been verified are suspicious. Unless
you want to have next to no one contacting you, don’t
skip over this easy step during your profile set-up.
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