Keep your hands to yourself! Trying to get physical with a girl right away just tells her that you consider her to be an object and not an actual person.
Be persistent, but not too persistent. If she turns you down gently, then she's politely telling you she's not interested. If she flat out refuses, back away. You don't want any girl to think you're a stalker.
If you have to ask her out through a friend, you will get a "no" by default. Girls do not enjoy hearing, "Hey! I'm asking you out for (Name of guy). He doesn't like you enough to overcome his lack of confidence." They will hear this regardless of how tactful your friend is, unless her friend is a very close friend to both you and herself.
Do not ask right away; you will always get a "no" just because she can always say she doesn't know you well enough. This one is big, get to know them well, then when you're both ready, ask her out cool and calm, and never try to kiss her on a first date unless you're positive that you both want to.
Do not try to buy her the world on the first date (e.g. teddies, etc.) because she might not want to develop the relationship.
Don't keep prying at a rejection. It's okay to ask how come if she says no, but don't be invasive.
Make sure you don't have bad breath! If you do they will assume that you do most of the time! Be careful, be clean!
It wouldn't be the best choice to ask a girl out by e-mail because she might think you're to scared to ask her out in person. But it would be ok if you guys weren't going to see eachother for a while and you wanted to ask her out before somebody else scooped her up.
Find out about the activities and hobbies she likes but try not to get to know her to much because when the time comes she might think of you as just a friend.
Don't talk about your class.
Don't look anywhere else while you're talking to her, this
is considered rude and she might brush you off for it.
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