Primarily, how a man treats you in general, says a lot. Is
he caring, thoughtful and respectful of you? Does he think
of you, when he does something for himself or does he just
look after his own needs in your presence? A woman or men for
that matter can, rather quickly observe arrogance or ignorance.
If a person is self-centered, it is an ugly and obvious observation
for someone to make of another person. Nobody wants to be with
a person who only things of himself or herself most of the
time. In cases like these, people might wonder the purpose
of being in a relationship with someone who ignores them or
treating them as less important that themselves.
There are some traditionally respectful gestures that a man
can make toward a woman, which shows her that he loves her.
For instance women love flowers, in particular roses tend to
make a big impact, especially red roses of love. Also, chocolates
make a big impression on women. Flowers and chocolates are
traditionally things, which seem to acknowledge a woman’s
feminine side. The other big item men give woman to express
their love is jewelry, specifically a ring, which symbolizes
commitment to the relationship. A nice dinner out is another
expression of love. These are all things that many women look
for when determining if a man loves her or not.
Of course, not all men are traditional in the ways that they
express their love, and so a person has to look at the different
communication styles of men with regard to love. Obviously,
there is the physical and sexual side of love and this certainly
can express a lot of love too. Very often, sexuality is the
focus of a lot of relationships and a person has to decide
if they are with the person they want to be with in this regard
too.
There are so many variables involved in a woman determining
if a man really loves her or not. Sometimes women judge a man’s
love by the way he looks at her in a crowded place. Women feel
a certain peace when they know that the man in their life loves
them and does not want to romantically pursue other woman.
Commitment is a big variable in any relationship. People want
to know that the person they love and spend time with loves
them back to the same intensity. Overall, love is mysterious
at times but when it is there, it is very obvious. |
