That’s right. Believe it. If you thought that only men
could think that way then you don’t know a lot. However,
seeing a hot and attractive guy does not mean that the woman
will approach him. What she will do is look at him a lot, and
watch him – his body language, his style, what he is
doing and who he is with. If she is really interested in the
guy then you will find that she cannot keep her eyes off him.
If the guy in question is also interested then he will do the
approaching. So the next time you find a woman staring at you,
approach her because she will not approach you first.
Never encourage a woman to think that you are a ‘nice
guy’ if you are attracted to her. Many guys do this because
it makes the initial stages of the process easier – she
is happy to talk with you, for example, and it is easy to build
up trust. But you will probably find she just laughs at you
when you try to move on to flirting and touching. She is willing
to be your friend but nothing more than a friend. She will
probably even go out with you in a group, but not one on one,
because she is hoping you will introduce her to other, ‘hotter’ guys.
However, this does not mean that you have to be a bad guy,
be aggressive or nasty to her, or treat her badly. Just be
clear in your mind that you can have as many women as you want,
and she will pick that up, and she will sit up and take notice.
The mind of a woman is such that they are attracted to guys
whom they find mysterious. Women like to unfold mysteries and
they simply cannot resist the challenge to know more about
mysterious men. So don’t answer all of her questions,
and don’t give her too much information. You don’t
want to satisfy her – at least, not by talking. When
it comes to information about yourself, always leave her wanting
more.
If a woman fancies you then you will know it. Like I mentioned
earlier, she is attracted to you if she cannot take her eyes
off you. So if you just met a woman and you find her eyes wandering
away when you are talking, then that is a bad sign. It probably
means that she is not interested and is looking around for
someone she likes more. Make yourself more interesting by talking
to another girl instead. You may end up having the choice between
the two of them.
Women are very keen creatures who simply love to notice a
lot of things. They are very interested in other people and
in all kinds of relationships. If you are on a date in a restaurant
with her and she is looking around the room, don’t worry.
In that situation she is probably just wanting to see what
kind of place she is in and who else is there, so that she
can tell her friends tomorrow. Stop talking and let her look.
As soon as you are quiet, she will want to know why, and that
will get her interested in you again.
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