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Let me ask you a question.
Do you think about what to say when you're with friends?
Here's another question - do you have trouble making conversation with people that don't have anything you want?
Think hard...do you ever get nervous when you are talking to someone that doesn't matter to you?
I think this is the real issue. As soon as you want something from someone, you get nervous, and this leads to getting "stumped."
It's a weird problem
I think society is partially to blame. You see, most guys think that a woman's sex is more valuable than his sex.
This is based on two myths.
Myth number 1:
Women are less horny than men.
I know this to be a complete illusion, and yet women play into it (until you get them into bed ;)
Myth number 2:
The way to make a woman want to sleep with you is to say the right things in conversation.
I remember reading Voltaire in my high school English class. He had this famous quote - something along the lines of:
"if I can talk away my ugly face, I can sleep with any woman in the world" or something to that effect.
Guess what...
YOU'RE NOT VOLTAIRE.
Voltaire was the exception - in fact, it's so extremely rare that a guy has the ability to say JUST THE RIGHT THING to make a woman feel attracted to him.
Usually it's something else. Which begs the question"
How do regular guys get laid?
We all know there are certain guys who are just like any regular joe, except they sleep with tons of women.
What are they doing?
In my experience, attraction is about something beyond words.
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